SECRET TIPS ON HOW TO GET YOUR GIRLFRIEND FRIEND BACK

You've been regretting it since the day you let her go. And you can't sleep another day without doing something about it. If you really love her, do not give up. Get on your feet and win your girlfriend back. To start you off the right track, here are some points and tips to keep in mind.


Give her space after the break-up. The harder you push, the more she might pull away. If she says she needs some time, respect her decision. Do not call her every minute of the day. Last thing you want is to annoy her with your over-persistence, and worse, drive her into a habit of hiding from you.


Do not beg or plead. This tends to scream desperation. Even if you are actually desperate to win her back, do not turn clingy.

You can court her all over again with flowers, chocolates and letters. But while the gifts are bound to draw a smile, winning her back will require a more personal and sincere gesture.

Show her that you are worthy of a second chance. Use the time you have spent apart since the break-up to reflect.

Think back on the qualities that attracted her to you in the first place. Play up your strengths. Become the man she first fell for.


Figure out what exactly went wrong with your relationship. Replay in your head the conversations, and even fights, you had.

From there, you'll know what needs to be fixed. If it was something you did, ask yourself why you did it in the first place. This way, you are clear on which issues you need to come to terms with. If it was a problem with your behavior, then work on your weak spots.

After you have made the necessary "fixes", arrange to meet or talk with her. You can check with her friends if they think she's ready to hear you out. Be patient.

When she does agree to a conversation, humbly apologize for your wrongdoings and take responsibility for your actions. "Sorry" goes a long way.

But do not stop at an apology. Convince her that your relationship deserves a do-over. Assure her that you will be a much better partner this time around. Pour your heart out.

Do not, however, force the reconciliation. Show her how much you want to be with her. Let everything else fall into place.

Also, do not pressure her into deciding on your future right away. Let her know of your intentions and your feelings, but assure her that you will completely respect her choice.
Remember that there’s no need to focus all your energies on this quest. Have some time to yourself as well. Do what makes you feel good, may it be a new diet, a new hobby or a new look. Who knows, this might even win you extra points with her.
The effective "rules of engagement" will vary with each guy and each relationship. Use the tips listed above as a guide to plotting your plan of action. Just remember that sincerity and determination are key. And of course, being mature, responsible, respectful and thoughtful always comes handy. Good luck!.

SECRET TIPS ON HOW TO GET YOUR BOYFRIEND BACK

How to Get Your Boyfriend Back

Do you still find yourself subconsciously picking up all the pieces of shattered memories and pulling through all the strings that could link you back with him? Whatever busted our cherished relationships, many of us, women, remain locked up in the past that we want to blow life to all the images that are flashing in our heads and turn them into reality.
Whatever our motives are in winning our men back, we can always resolve to live our lives in ways that will both favor our victory in deliberately getting our men back and our success in purposely improving ourselves that may unintentionally lead them back to us.
Now let's get rolling ...
1. One can have a solid kick off by having a clear and resolute decision of loving oneself first.
Men are generally aware that only when one is capable of loving herself enough, that she is able to love others well.
A woman who values and respects oneself will not allow herself to fall into wrongdoings that might affect the relationship. She will commit herself to continuous growth - discovering what she can do and how she can do those best - for her to have a good self-image, preventing her to feel insecure and jealous.
A woman who loves herself is naturally caring, understanding, sympathetic, and supportive because she knows what love truly is and how it is to be loved.


2. Properly send your man signals that you have already totally accepted the breakup even though the reality is otherwise.
Making your man believe that you have already moved on usually hits his ego and stirs him to think whether he is your loss or you are his loss. Showing no desperation in winning him back conversely makes him desperate to come back to prove his worth.
Also, older men no longer find women who are possessive and obsessive cute and lovable. Mature men appreciate women who can be their partner rather than their pet.



3. It pays to always look your best - internally and externally. Maintaining inner and outer beauty will, in no way, drive your man away.
Take advantage of how well you know him. Put on a dress that has the color and style he likes; set your hair in ways he finds sexy; and use the perfume you were using to sweep him back to the times when you were still together.
Having a girlfriend with a good heart and a prudent mind is nothing but trophy for most men.
Any ex-boyfriend couldn't help but snivel on the sight of a beautiful woman with a golden heart being admired and respected by other men.


4. Maintain warm relationships with your man’s friends and family members.
Being warm with his crowd usually results to complimentary award-winning advertisement on how good you are as a friend and a family member.
Being nice with his clique shows how diplomatic you are in dealing with issues. He may also perceive you as a good partner in both good and not-so-good times.



5. Always be yourself.
Being the woman that you really are can help rekindle old flame. Who you truly are was the reason why he became attracted to you. Maybe it's the perfect time to look at yourself and retrospect. Have you changed a lot? Are the changes because of improvement or of worsening?
While doing all these, you are also helping yourself become the esteemed woman you need to be whether he comes back to your or not. If he comes back, it means you are really wired and meant for each other. If he doesn't, then rejoice because you have already started spreading your wings and are now more prepared to take off and soar to the vast heavens of possibilities and opportunities for growth and successes.

Preventing Bad Love Liife

Prevent Bad Relationships

No one wants to be part of an unhealthy relationship. The bad news is that it happens - some good relationships go south, some people seem to move from one hurtful relationship to another.
The good news is there are ways to avoid falling into the usual traps that burden, threaten and ultimately break relationships.

Be on the guard
Tread with caution. Look back on your previous relationships and what made them crumble. Make a conscious effort to learn from your past mistakes.

Also watch out for red flags – any indication that something is not quite right. Be particularly wary of signs of abuse, violence or manipulation.

Better yet, come up your own relationship deal breakers. Think of the traits or habits that, by your personal standards, are unacceptable in a partner. And when one of the non-negotiables on your list becomes apparent, take it as your cue to bow out of the relationship.

Be your own person
Do not lose yourself in a relationship. Some couples tend to think only in terms of "we" and forget "I". Relationships should be anchored on the idea of two persons working as a team. That means each individual member must have a voice, get a say in making decisions. Mutual respect needs to exist. So always assert yourself.

Set-ups where one is submissive and the other domineering are bound to fail. Control often translates to abuse. And somebody will end up feeling powerless, dismissed or fearfully dependent.

Talk it out
Keep the lines of communication open. Converse constantly. Discuss even the smallest of issues, so you can nip them in the bud.

If you can sense that something is eating into the relationship, share your sentiments with your partner. Letting him or her know how you feel could help pinpoint the problem.

For serious troubles, it's best to have your talk when both parties are calm and receptive. Discussing matters when tempers are running high will do more damage than good.

During the conversations, be honest, clear and open. Hear each other out and find a middle ground. You do not have to be on the same side. Agreeing to disagree is a form of compromise in itself.

Enjoy the company
Couples should be able to have a good time together, may it be fun and wild, or relaxing and comforting. If boredom seems to strike more often than normal or the chemistry is fading, this might be a sign that something is amiss. Find a way to identify and address the situation.

Work it out
Every relationship hits a snag. But not all survive.

If your find yourselves in a rough patch, do not give up. If the relationship is worth saving, fight for it. Resolve your issues.

But if the bad undoubtedly outweighs the good, then the relationship is unhealthy. There's no need to stick it out any longer.

There are no hard-and-fast rules to avoiding bad relationships. But it always helps to be vigilant. Be on the lookout for any red flags. Make sure there is mutual respect and trust. Communicate regularly, clearly and honestly.
Know when to let go and when course-correcting is an option.

SEX

sex is the most profound and intimate way to express your love for someone. Different people enjoy and pursue sex in different forms—as the pioneering sex, researcher Alfred Kinsey put it, the only universal in human sexuality is variability itself. But within the universe of intimacy and pleasure that sex affords is a lot of room for error. Most people are affected by sexual problems at some point in their lives

Do You Want to Break Up With Your Girlfriend or boyfriend?

If you are confused about your relationship and don’t know whether the relationship is worth the pain you are experiencing, here are signs that you are with the wrong person. Below are some reasons to break up with your girlfriend.

1. She is trying to change you:

This is certainly not acceptable. When you get into a new relationship, some amount of changes do occur. These changes can be in terms of lifestyle, ambition, maturity, etc. However if she is constantly trying to put you down by changing the person in you, it shows that she doesn’t love you enough.

                                   2. She has been lying to you:

Small white lies here and there can be forgiven sometimes. However, it should not become a practice. Trust is most important in a relationship. If she keeps lying to you all the time, she certainly does not deserve to be with you.

3. Love is absent:

If you feel that you are with her only because of the society, parents or because you don’t want to hurt her, save yourself the trouble. You cannot keep her happy if you don’t love her enough. All relationships may lose some spark at some point in time. However if you feel that no matter how much you try, you can’t feel love for her, it is better to end things.

                                   4. It’s one sided:

Love should be balanced. If you are the only one who is making efforts to make the relationship work while your girlfriend is just sitting with folded hands, your relationship cannot work. There is also the chance that she doesn’t love you enough or she is planning to break up with you. It’s time you talk to her. If it still doesn’t help, it is better to part ways.

5. She keeps humiliating you:

If she loves you, she will respect you. However if she bad mouths about you to others or keeps insulting you all the time, it is time to put your foot down. Nobody has a right to make you feel bad about yourself without your consent. So if she constantly treats you like a fool, it’s time to show her that you’re wise enough by taking the wisest decision ever. Dump her!

6. Over-possessive:

If she tries to keep you away from your friends, doesn’t give you enough space, doesn’t let you talk to your female friends or constantly keeps getting jealous of the people you deal with, there are chances that you are with an insecure looser. It is time to end this nightmarish relationship before it puts an end to your independent happy life.

7. She constantly keeps comparing you with others:

This kind of behavior should not be accepted . As your partner, it is her duty to            treat       you with love and respect. She should not keep comparing you with others and make you feel bad. The relationship demands that both of you accept each other as you are. Get out of the relationship if that is not happening.

8. She bosses over you:

Does your girlfriend often dictates terms to you? Does she ask you to do things her way all the time? It is your right to put a stop to it. She may be the love of your life, but that indubitably does not give her the power to rule your life.

9. She is a gold-digger:

Does she very often make you spend for her? Is she very demanding and expects you to fulfill all her wants? Does she keep asking you questions about your financial status? If you answered yes to any of the questions, then there is a possibility that you are   dating a gold-digger.

10. She has some dangerous addiction:

It can be alcohol or drugs. It can wreck even the strongest relationship. If your girlfriend has a dangerous addiction it is your duty to get her help. Speak to her parents or a counselor. If you feel that she will not leave the addiction,please break up as being into relationship with her may ruin your life as well.
Whoever said break ups were easy? However, sometimes they have to be done for the best. It may hurt but it is for the best of the two of you. It is a price to pay for a better future.

Make everyman want you

Make every man want you and become irresistible is a book written by Marie Folio, Get the right partner now. Here are the incredible success stories of nine beautiful women JUST LIKE YOU who have used the power of Make Every Man Want You to incite a total life transformation.
Pay close attention. Because these lovely ladies have left a treasure chest full of clues on how to bring some irresistible magic into your own life right now!
“My name is Janet Petramala, my friends call me Janmarie. I am an Emergency Medical Technician and I live in beautiful Northern Idaho about 300 miles from the Canadian border. I am totally a small town, redneck girl.

I ordered "Make Every Man Want You" and have since read it just about every night.

When I first read it I was totally amazed at how quickly it changed my whole outlook on relationships and life in general. What possessed me to order the book was another break up. I have never had any problem getting a man, and during the course of dating, we would have incredible fun. It always seemed that either when I got too serious or when he got too serious, the relationship would drizzle away to nothing, the fun stuff would end and a break up would occur. I finally had enough of it so I bought your book. Make Every Man Want You: How to Be So Irresistible You'll Barely Keep from Dating Yourself!

I discovered exactly what I was doing wrong, taking responsibility for it instead of blaming the men I dated and put a stop to trying to control the man or the relationship. Ha! What a concept!

Anyway, I am in a new relationship, relaxed, not putting any undue pressure on him or myself. I am just being my irresistible self and allowing him to be the one taking the relationship to each new level. I am just along for the ride so to speak, or at least that is the way it may seem to the outside world but I know that my actions and the way I think about him and the relationship is really what is causing him to grow deeper in love with me. In fact this is so powerful it is almost scary how things have progressed between us. We are totally opposite but yet have the same views and ideas and goals. I am a fiery sign and he is an earth sign. That seems to be working in our favor. He keeps me a little more grounded and I help him to "dream a little dream."

But I have to tell you how we met because we are from different countries. He is Canadian and every year he and his golfing buddies come to the US to golf for a week. We happen to be in the same redneck bar at the same time. I was there to sing Karaoke, it was a sport I got into to help boost my confidence. We met and have been together since. We travel back and forth to see each other, he is actually only 8 hours away from me, and he is almost at the point of asking me for a more committed relationship.


So if it wasn't for reading your book, and becoming aware of how I was operating in my life and relationships with men, I am sure I would have killed this relationship by now.

Changes I have noticed in myself are that I am much more relaxed, living in the moment, meeting life as it shows up for me and allowing everything to be as it is without resisting it.

Life is good, and thank you for writing this book!!”
I recommend it to everyladies on earth.
Best wishes,

Janmarie Petramala, Idaho

MY FIRST DATE

One of the important questions that loom before us on our first date is what we should be wearing? it should not be a First-Date Heart Break

 Giving the right impression on the very first date is vital as it would decide whether you will meet the person in the future or not. Therefore the way you look and present yourself matters a lot, no matter how much your date would deny the fact that looks are not on his/her list of qualities that a potential partner should have.

The first date used to be a formal affair when both met up for dinner at a posh restaurant. However, with the changing times, this popular practice has become passe and dinner at the local diner or going to a ball game or a music concert and other such activities have replaced the formal affair that the first date used to be. No matter where the two of you meet, it is very essential for you to dress up appropriately. Here are a few tips for you to get the right look on your first date.
 
Girls are almost paranoid before the first date. After the date is planned, they spend endless hours at the mall searching for the right outfit, the right pair of shoes and the right accessories. Another important aspect is makeup and jewelry. Makeup and jewelry should complement your looks and not dominate. Excessive use of makeup would make you look like a clown and going over the top with jewelry would make you look like a portable jewelry store. Either ways, the guy would find it very embarrassing to walk in your company.
If your date plans to take you to a posh and classy restaurant for dinner, it would pay to go light and subtle. The best possible dress on such an occasion would be a cocktail dress.

As it would be a dinner date, colors like black, maroon, beige, forest green, white and deep blue would go better than their lighter versions. If you think that the cocktail dress would be too flashy, the LBD or the little black dress is an evergreen option. It is a safe way to ensure that you look great without thinking too much.
 
Another possible option is a fancy white shirt with a classy pair of trousers or a smart little skirt. Keep makeup to a limit so that it accentuates your features. Give heavy accessories a miss and don something on the lighter side.

 On the other hand, if your date plans to take you somewhere casual, think of denims, a bright and attractive top and sneakers to go with it. In this case you can accessorize according to what you might do on usual days. Avoid something that may look too revealing as it may give a wrong impression. Don’t forget to pay attention to what you do to your hair. A girl’s hair is a great turn on for men and if done the right way, it can do wonder to what he feels about you. Don’t forget a good perfume as guys are first attracted by the way a girl smells. Most often they relate a girl to one particular fragrance.
Just keep in mind, that you wear only what you are comfortable in.

Have a pleasant First-Date experience